Press & contact

Boring is good. Predictable is better.

A press one-pager. The platform is built openly — public policies, public commitments, public transparency reports. If you’re writing about us, this is the starting point.

At a glance

The facts.

Audience

Both communities, unified.

A social platform for the lifestyle (SDC-shaped) and kink (FetLife-shaped) communities, sharing one backbone.

Posture

Privacy by default. Explicit allowed for adults.

Private, encrypted DMs that are never mined. Transparent moderation with written reasons and appeals. Explicit content allowed for adults — 18+ only, consent-first rules.

Product

Live now.

A mobile-first PWA — no app-store gatekeeping. Free to join. Discover, Feed, Events, private messaging, and a real venue directory.

“A modern, privacy-respecting home for the lifestyle and kink communities — where messages stay private, moderation is transparent and appealable, and real activity is honestly signaled.”

— The wedge thesis

Boilerplate

Use this in your story.

Coywink is a social platform for the lifestyle and kink communities, designed around three commitments: private messaging that is never mined, transparent and appealable moderation with public reports, and a privacy posture that minimizes data collection at the source. The platform allows explicit content for adults only and is seeding its directory and events with real venues and real community organizers.

Contacts

Get in touch.

Partners & organizers

support@coywink.com

Security & trust

support@coywink.com

Responsible disclosure encouraged; PGP key on request.

Where to read more

Public-by-default docs.

Everything we promised users is also linked here for press, regulators, and partners.

Manifesto — long-form thesis on what we won’t do and why.

Safety — moderation layers and T&S commitments.

How it works — product shape, two surfaces, onboarding flow.

Transparency report — quarterly public report (first edition after our first full quarter).

Community Guidelines — the rule book: consent-first, 18+ only, zero tolerance for exploitation.