Join as a couple. Be heard as two.
A private social network for couples in the lifestyle and swinger scene. One profile that shows both of you, two voices behind it, and nothing on it either of you did not agree to.
Start as a coupleAbout two minutes. Your partner gets an invite, not a shared password.
The things you two are already saying.
Every couple has this talk before they sign up anywhere. Here is how the product answers it.
- mara
I don’t want an inbox full of single guys.
Filter Discover to couples, and to people active today. A message from anyone who is not already a match or a friend waits in requests until you say yes, so the inbox stays yours.
- ash
I’m not putting my face on an app.
Then don’t. Photos are optional and each one has its own audience. Your name is never asked for, your city is as precise as it gets, and the location data cameras hide inside photos is stripped on your phone before upload.
- mara
What if one of us is not sure yet?
Nothing links until you both accept. One of you signs up and invites the other by handle or email. Until they say yes, nothing about them shows. Either of you can unlink later, and one page in your settings deletes your account.
- ash
Is anyone on these things actually real?
Every profile is a person who signed up. Activity shows as today or this week, never a number we made up, and the venue directory is real clubs and parties by city where no one pays to rank.
- mara
Saturday, then?
Find the party in Events and RSVP. You choose who can see that you are going: everyone attending, your friends, only the host, or no one. Then go.
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One card. Two people on it.
Other members see you as a couple: both of you, your city, how recently you were around, and what you are into. What each of you shows is your own call, field by field.
- One of you signs up as a couple. Handle, email, password. No names.
- Invite the other. By handle or email. Nothing shows until they accept.
- Decide together what the card says. Every field has its own audience: members, friends, partner only, or no one.
Start the conversation here.
Start as a coupleAbout two minutes. Either of you can leave with one page in your settings.