A 3Fun alternative where a threesome takes three yeses.
Coywink is a private dating site for couples looking for a third and singles looking for a couple, inside a wider community of swingers, poly people and the kink scene. If you are looking for a 3Fun alternative, here is what is the same, what is different, and what we do not have yet.
About two minutes. A handle is all anyone needs to know you by.
If you are leaving because
- you could never tell if both halves of a couple were in
- Couples are two accounts linked by invite, and a couple’s interest in someone goes out only after both partners confirm. When a couple shows interest in you, both of them said yes.
- couples treated you like a prop
- A single’s profile is a full profile, with its own stances, limits and audiences. A first message from anyone you have not matched with waits in requests until you say yes.
- too many profiles never answered
- Activity shows as online now, today or this week, and Discover can filter to who is around. Nothing is seeded to look busy.
- your photos were the first and only thing anyone saw
- Photos are optional, and each one has its own audience: members, friends, your partner, or only you. Your profile says what you are into and where your limits are before anyone sees a picture.
- you wanted more than one night
- Groups, writing, parties and meetups by city, so you can meet people where they already are and come back to the same faces.
What you will recognise
The thing you came for is easy to find here.
- Couples looking for a third, and singles looking for a couple, filtered by account type.
- Gender, orientation and relationship filters, so couples find who they are looking for and singles find couples who want them.
- Group play, soft swap and full swap as entries on a profile, each with a stance.
- Matches: when interest runs both ways, messages go straight to the inbox.
- People near you, by distance from your city.
What we do not have yet
Said here so you do not have to find out after signing up.
- A native iOS or Android app. The phone experience is the installable web app, with notifications.
- A “looking for a third” field. For now, people say it in their bio and with the Relationship and Interests picks.
- Paid tiers. There are none yet; everything on the platform is open to every member.
- A crowd. The room is new and real, which means quieter than an app that has been open for years.
Questions people ask before switching
Is Coywink a threesome app?
It is a dating site and social network where couples and singles meet on purpose, threesomes included. It is also groups, events and writing for the community around it.
Can a single man join a couple here?
Yes. Gender is a filter, not a rule. Couples decide who they want to meet, and a single man’s first message waits in requests until the couple says yes.
Who sees my photos?
You choose, photo by photo: members, friends, your partner, or only you. The location data cameras hide inside photos is stripped before upload.
Does it cost anything?
Not today. There are no paid tiers yet, so everything on the platform is open to every member.
New to the words? Read what a unicorn is and what a swinger is.
Nothing to migrate. A handle is the whole first step.
Leave whenever you like, with one page in your settings.
3Fun is a trademark of its owner. Coywink is independent and not affiliated with it.