A Kasidie alternative for couples who come for the parties.
Coywink is a private social network for the lifestyle: parties and club nights by city, the groups and hosts behind them, and the couples and singles you meet there. If you are weighing a Kasidie alternative, here is what is the same, what is different, and what we do not have yet.
About two minutes. A handle is all anyone needs to know you by.
If you are leaving because
- finding a good party took more searching than it should
- Events are listed by city and kind: club nights, house parties, play parties, meetups, travel. The venue directory sits beside them, with swinger clubs and lifestyle resorts by city.
- the address of a private party got around
- The exact address shows only to guests who are going; with approval on, only to the ones the host said yes to. Everyone else sees the city and the name of the place, if the host gives one.
- you host, and you wanted a say in who walks in
- A listing says who the night welcomes: couples, single women, single men, trans and non-binary guests. Add house rules and a guest limit, turn on approval to say yes to each guest yourself, and past the limit people join a waitlist.
- the community felt like it lived in old forum threads
- Groups by kind and by city, with a feed of the people you follow, writing under your handle, and moderators who write their rules down.
- you each wanted your own login, not a shared one
- You each get your own account and your own privacy settings, linked as a couple by invite. Nothing links until both of you accept.
What you will recognise
The parties are the point. The rest is there so you get to them.
- Parties, club nights and meetups by city, with the host’s own description of each.
- Couple profiles, with each field’s audience your own call.
- Couples and singles near you, filtered to who is active this week.
- Groups for the lifestyle in your city, and the people who run the nights.
- A venue directory where nobody pays to rank.
What we do not have yet
Said here so you do not have to find out after signing up.
- Ticketing. You RSVP on Coywink; payment for a party stays with the host.
- A native iOS app. The phone experience is the installable web app, with notifications.
- Paid tiers. There are none yet; everything on the platform is open to every member.
- A full calendar in every city. The community is new and real, so some cities are still quiet.
Questions people ask before switching
Can we list our own party?
Yes. Create an event with its kind, city, date and who it welcomes, then decide whether guests need your approval and who sees the address.
Who sees that we are going?
You choose when you RSVP: everyone going, your friends, or only the host. The host always sees who is coming.
Can single men come to events?
Each host says who a night welcomes: couples, single women, single men, trans and non-binary guests. Coywink does not set entry rules for parties.
Does it cost anything?
Not today. There are no paid tiers yet, so creating an account and using the platform is open to everyone.
New to the words? Read what a swinger is and what a unicorn is.
Nothing to migrate. A handle is the whole first step.
Leave whenever you like, with one page in your settings.
Kasidie is a trademark of its owner. Coywink is independent and not affiliated with it.