An AdultFriendFinder alternative that does not sell you anything.
Coywink is a private adult dating site and social network for singles, couples, swingers and the kink community. If you are looking for an AdultFriendFinder alternative, here is what carries over, what is different, and what we do not have yet.
About two minutes. A handle is all anyone needs to know you by.
If you are leaving because
- every click led to an upgrade
- There are no paid tiers yet. Messaging, Discover, events and every privacy setting are open to every member.
- you did not want your name or email tied to an adult site
- There is no field for your name, and your email is stored only as a one-way hash, so it cannot be read back out of our database.
- your inbox filled with messages nobody meant
- A message from anyone you have not matched with or befriended waits in requests until you say yes. When interest runs both ways, it is a match and goes straight to your inbox.
- you wanted to say exactly what you are into
- Kinks and lifestyle entries each take a stance: into it, curious, switch, soft limit or hard limit. A filter never matches someone on something they listed as a no.
- you did not want your messages read by anyone but the person you sent them to
- Your messages are encrypted in transit and at rest, and with your profile and photos they are never sold, never used to train a model, never mined for ads.
What you will recognise
Adult dating, without the parts that made you leave.
- Singles and couples near you, filtered by gender, orientation, age and account type.
- Explicit photos of consenting adults, each with its own audience.
- Private messages, encrypted in transit and at rest.
- Groups, writing, and events by city, for when you want more than a chat.
- A pseudonymous handle and a profile that says what you want.
What we do not have yet
Said here so you do not have to find out after signing up.
- A native iOS or Android app. The phone experience is the installable web app, with notifications.
- Live cams or video chat. Coywink is profiles, messages, groups and events.
- Paid tiers. There are none yet; everything on the platform is open to every member.
- A crowd. The room is new and real, which means quieter than a site that has been open for years.
Questions people ask before switching
Is Coywink a hookup site?
It is an adult dating site and social network. Some members are here to hook up, some to date, some for the community or events. Members say what they are here for, and Discover can filter by it.
Are the profiles real?
Every profile is a person who signed up. Nothing is seeded to look busy, and activity shows as today or this week, never a number we made up.
Can I delete my account?
Yes. One page in your settings deletes your account and what you posted.
Does it cost anything?
Not today. There are no paid tiers yet, so everything on the platform is open to every member.
New to the words? Read what kink means, what a swinger is and what ENM means.
Nothing to migrate. A handle is the whole first step.
Leave whenever you like, with one page in your settings.
AdultFriendFinder is a trademark of its owner. Coywink is independent and not affiliated with it.